标签：#mentorship

Those who have been following me for a while will know that teaching and mentoring are a Big Deal™️ to me. Before I got into tech I was a teacher, and still consider myself a teacher at heart. Being a teacher and mentor was never separate in my eyes from being a good programmer and engineer; on the contrary, teaching was a tool that helped me become better at my craft at every stage of the journey. But in the last few years, and accelerating in the last few months, the landscape for teaching and learning has been changing at a scary pace. The advent of LLMs and "AI" coding assistants has drastically shifted how we acquire engineering skills in ways that we are definitely not prepared for. All of that has prompted many thoughts and conversations, and I hope to distill some of them in this blog post. In true Talmudic fashion, this post doesn't contain too many answers and will hopefully leave you with more questions than you started with. But asking the questions is how we start these conversations, and these conversations need to be happening if we are to do right by the coming generation of programmers and engineers. Don't Spoon-Feed Me As a student, whether in Yeshiva when I used to spend hours each day poring over dense Talmudic legal debates and esoteric Chassidic philosophy or later while learning Rails and React at the Flatiron bootcamp, I quickly realized an uncomfortable truth about skill acquisition. My best, most profound learning never happened when a lesson went smoothly; it happened when I was painfully stuck, banging my head against a cryptic error message or wrestling with a concept that just wouldn't click (usually at 2 AM, fueled by cold coffee and sheer stubbornness). When you strip away that struggle, you get rid of the growth. And when you get rid of the growth, the learning just doesn't happen. Even if you memorize just enough to pass the test, "easy come easy go." Without that cognitive friction, the knowledge evaporates the moment you close you

This is my first post here, so I'm going to use it as an introduction. I'm Usman, a software + data engineer who primarily works with data pipelines, backend systems. Not a huge fan of frontend development though. Although I do what I can, projects honestly feel incomplete without them, because at the end of the day you do have to showcase a working end to end system when you build something. I'm here after dozens of incomplete personal projects, and projects that never even got past the design phase, you know the drill. Procrastination and imposter syndrome kept stopping me from taking the next step, but I'm here now, gotta keep myself in check fr. I was scrolling through LinkedIn the past few days, and oh my god, the amount of AI-related brain rot there. Every single post written by AI, telling you how to use AI and how not to use AI. I mean I get it, yeah, the paradigm is shifting and AI is essential to development, but where are your personal anecdotes, stuff you solved, stuff you learned, the challenges you faced, how you overcame them. You know what maybe it's my fault, it's my algorithm after all. Anyway, here I am, looking to interact with like-minded engineers and learn from them. I'm also going to post regularly about my progress and what I am building, even though I have quite a bit of experience, and have built and contributed to large-scale production systems and pipelines, I'm going to start with something small, so I can stay consistent and keep myself in check. Software engineering fascinates me a lot, and there are so many domains that I wish to explore and have explored like game development, data engineering, web/app development. My significant other is graduating in a few days, and I'm thinking of making a small game for her, alongside which I'll be working on a small sales lead enrichment pipeline. Hoping to showcase my work and document it publicly, and hoping to get to know and learn from you all! Also, I'd love to know your thoughts on the am